[This blog is based on a family-focused advent devotional that I recorded in video form for my church. I am sharing a version of it here in the hopes that it might encourage you as well!]
I’m excited to share with you during this season of Advent. Today we are going to look at a passage that most people have heard or seen before, but may never have thought about how amazing and full of meaning it is for our lives. My hope is that you can take a fresh look at it with me and be amazed at God’s good gift in Jesus.
John 3:16-17 says: 16 “For God so loved the world,[a] that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.”
I cannot comprehensively cover this verse, but I want to focus in on 4 key words/phrases. First is the phrase “God so loved…” Our God is a God characterized by love. This might sound normal to you, but it distinguishes Christianity from almost every other religion. The God of the Bible is personal, involved, engaged, and caring. His commands are out of love and for our flourishing. God loves enough to act so that we can be saved from the brokenness, corruption and evil caused by sin (both the sins of others that affect and hurt us and our own sin as well).
Second is the word “whoever.” This means “anyone.” There is no stratification, no additional ifs that restrict the kind of person that can be included in the phrase “whoever believes in me” here. This passage is not saying that you can only believe in Jesus if you are pretty good and haven’t messed up too bad, or if you have built up enough good deeds, or if you look like you have it together. NO! This means what it says – whoever! Jesus right in this very passage is talking to a very religious person—a Pharisee named Nicodemus—so he is pointing out that the same thing is required of both the religious and the non-religious as well – they must believe in Jesus.
And that brings us to the third word: “believes.” The kind of belief this is talking about is an “all in” kind of belief. It’s not an “okay, I guess I believe that if I will get something out of it” kind of belief. Jesus is not like Santa Clause, about whom tradition says if you believe in him and are good, then he will give you good gifts… No! Believing in Jesus means that we understand our desperate need for God to intervene to save us. It means we know that we aren’t good enough on our own, but we need Him. It means that we trust God and know he is the only one who can accomplish His plan to save us.
So what are we to believe exactly? The next phrase tells us: “in Him.” If we are going to believe “in him,” it means we need to know who he is—He is God with us, the Messiah, the promised one. It also means we believe that we need Him. We recognize that we are, without Him, moving towards death, towards “perishing.” We recognize that the only way to have eternal life is through Him because God accomplished his rescue plan through every aspect of Jesus’ miraculous life: his promised birth, his birth, his childhood, his years of ministry, his death and his resurrection.
I understood this concept as a kid, but I didn’t want to need to be rescued. I thought it was nice that God could give us eternal life in Jesus, but I also wanted to feel like I deserved God’s favor. I didn’t realize that I was undermining the gift of God by trying to earn it. The reality is that, from the first chapters of Genesis, right after Adam and Eve sinned and chose their own way over God’s way and plan, humans were on the path to death and destruction—unless God intervened! So from that time, out of love for the people he created, God began to execute his rescue plan to send Jesus as THE WAY for people to go from death to life.
So the sequence to remember is this: We Learn about and see God — We choose to believe in Jesus — We can be confident that we have eternal life.
Then here is the cool thing: knowing that we have eternal life changes how we live here in this life too because we have the ability (through his love, example, and power, not through our own effort) to do good and love people. We do this, not so that we can earn God’s favor, but because we already have his love, the incredible gift of relationship with Jesus, and the promise of life with the one who loves us unconditionally forever.
If you believe this, you can join me in saying “Thank you, God, for saving me.” If not, I encourage you to stay on your spiritual journey and seek to learn about and come to know the God who loves you.